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This newsletter dives into the intersection of psychology and performance, with a focus on personal responsibility and practical strategies for growth. Expect insights that challenge you to take ownership of your life, embrace accountability, and achieve meaningful progress. Growth happens when you do the work. Let's do it together!
Not Everyone Needs More Happiness One of the more useful distinctions I’ve heard recently came from Arthur Brooks, who pointed out that happiness and unhappiness are not opposites in the way we often assume. Darkness is simply the absence of light. Unhappiness is not simply the absence of happiness. Psychologically, they operate as partially independent systems. You can experience meaning, joy, and gratitude while still carrying anxiety, grief, or dissatisfaction, just as you can remove...
Korab Idrizi PhD Candidate & Performance Coach I accidentally went viral last week after sharing some reflections on my wife’s pregnancy, the labor process, and the early postpartum period. The video has since reached about 3.5 million views, with over 729,000 likes and 7,700 comments, not as a point of pride, but as evidence that it struck a nerve. Here’s the video if you haven’t seen it yet: Screenshot of Tiktok videohttps://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8y3qKBy/ What I described was not meant to be...
3 Choices that Define a Life This week’s newsletter is late for a good reason. My wife and I welcomed a new member to the family, and I am operating on very little sleep. Becoming a father has pushed me to think about the few decisions that shape the entire trajectory of a life. 1. Marry the person who laughs when the baby pees on you at three in the morning. If there is a single cheat code for a good life, it is choosing a partner who makes every experience better simply by being who they...